pier francis | behind the name

Before I begin, here's a friendly PSA about how to pronounce Pier's name.... it's like this, you see:

Just wanted to clarify because our little man has been called Peter, Piers, Pierce, and Pierre more times than we can count.  Technically in Italian it's pronounced kinda like the French Pierre but in one syllable, which we Americanize simply as the word pier (like a pier in a lake, or a peer in your classroom...you get the idea).

So, why exactly did we name him Pier and not something a little more...normal?

Ever since I was little, I’ve been obsessed with baby names.  I had names for all of my dolls, notebooks filled to the brim of each of my future children’s names, and would even research the meaning of names at a very early age.  Names fascinate me, so when it came to decide on a (very permanent) name for our firstborn, we put a lot of prayer and thought into the decision.

In true Catholic tradition, we plan on naming all our children after saints who live out the Gospel in extraordinary ways.  We ask for the intercession of these saints in order that our own children will become holy, virtuous men and women as they grow to carry out the love of Christ in his or her unique way.   Our Pier Francis is named after two very important men that hold special places in our hearts – Blessed Pier Girogio Frassati and Saint Francis of Assisi (we also really love this guy). Of course, "Pier" is Italian for Peter, so actually he has three pretty legit men looking after him ;). It was my prayer throughout my pregnancy that our baby Pier would possess the spirit and virtue of these great men. 

Most of you probably know the story of St. Francis, so I am excited to tell you about Blessed Pier Giorgio.  First off, if I were to have a saint crush, he's definitely it.  This guy was an Italian hunk -- super attractive, incredibly wealthy, and joyfully charismatic.  See studly photo for reference:

And he wasn't afraid to live a full life, either.  He loved to hike, ski, play practical jokes, climb mountains, smoke his pipe, and drink his wine with the best of 'em. 

Above all, he had a heart for the Lord and the Blessed Mother, and a deep devotion to the Eucharist.  This pure love for Christ and His Church stemmed an intense love for the poor.  His parents were ridiculously wealthy, but he gave everything -- even his bus fare -- to those in need.  His humility was so profound that even those closest to him had no idea he did these things. At the age of 24, he contracted polio from the poor that he so devoutly served, and died quickly after.  In fact, at his funeral, thousands of the poor of Turin showed up in vast numbers to say goodbye to their friend. 

So, you can see why we love Frassati so much!  We are blessed to have such a powerful intercessor for our firstborn and for our family. P.S. His feast day is TOMORROW!!!!! Blessed Pier Giorgio, pray for us!

What does it mean to be “blessed” (makarioi in Greek)? To be blessed means to be happy. Tell me: Do you really want to be happy? In an age when we are constantly being enticed by vain and empty illusions of happiness, we risk settling for less and “thinking small” when it comes to the meaning of life. Think big instead! Open your hearts! As Blessed Pier Giorgio Frassati once said, “To live without faith, to have no heritage to uphold, to fail to struggle constantly to defend the truth: this is not living. It is scraping by. We should never just scrape by, but really live”
— Pope Francis

Wanting to learn more about Frassati? Here are 10 More Reasons to Love Blessed Pier Giorgio.

And if you're still interested in his life (which you totally should be), here's a great short video about how vibrantly he lived out the Gospel, earning him the title "Man of the Beatitudes".  Also, if you're curious about the meaning behind verso l'alto Fr. Barron does a great job explaining it.  It's one of my favorites!

 

 

introducing...

pier francis fossier

So we had a baby last night!!! I'm so looking forward to share how our little man entered the world, but until then, here are the freshest photos of the newest member of our family to hold you over.  He is 7lbs 8oz and 20 inches of perfection and we are so in love.  And he's also the reason why blog posts will have more typos and grammatical errors than usual (hello already exhausted mama!).

Brad and I sincerely want to thank you all for your prayers...we can't wait for you to meet our baby Pier!

hospital packing...

It's so close!!!  I'm incredibly thankful I've had this bit of me time to rest and prepare my heart and my body for the marathon that is labor (and parenthood).

After doing some research (since I've never done this before), I think I've finally narrowed down what I want to bring to the hospital with me.  We're planning on doing most of the labor at home, so the labor section isn't really applicable to the hospital. But other than that, this is it! Dr. Brad gave me the inside scoop on what the hospital already provides mom and baby with, so I tried to keep things simple.  And obviously this isn't every little thing I'm bringing, just a couple items I think will be important!

for labor

birthing ball - this is such a great tool for labor, but also for the last trimester of pregnancy when you're feeling really pregnant.

snacks - In addition to a few other snacks, I plan on snacking on this in particular to give me added boost of energy when I need it. Pineapple is a natural pain reliever plus gives you a little bit of added sugar to keep you going. I know I'll probably not feel like eating, but it is a marathon people and you can't blame me for trying!

Shaklee Performance - my sweet grandmother gifted this to me and pregnancy would have been a lot worse without it! This stuff is amazing and helps not only with hydration, but also with any nausea I've experienced.

water bottle with straw - on my many pre-baby binge shopping trips to Target, I got myself a cute (important) glass water bottle with a glass straw to use specifically for labor.  I think the hospital provides one of these, but I wanted a cute one?

heating pad - helps with all the aches and pains you'll most likely get in early labor. I use mine all the time 3rd trimester.

swimming noodle - yep, you heard me...Our doula gave us this to use for rubbing down the back for labor.  Take my word for it, it feels pretty darn amazing.

lotion - I use this brand.  The lotion helps for a smoother massage, while the lavender essential oils help me to relax.

your favorite pillow + quilt - so you have the comforts of home with you in a new environment

for baby

snuggly "going home" outfit - so he looks his best for meeting Gertie the Cat the first time

blanket - for the car ride home (the blanket in the photo is this one from Target).

baby mittens - so he doesn't scratch his cute lil face

boppy - for nursing

for mama

comfy robe – growing a human isn’t easy, so I give you permission to treat yourself in this department.  Plus you never know who will be visiting you! View my picks here, here, and here

lip balm – I'm one of those people who is addicted to the stuff.  Seriously, I can’t leave the house without it, so of course it has to come with me to the hospital.  Plus all those breathing exercises will leave your lips feeling extra dry...you're already giving birth to a baby, let's not complicate the process by adding dry lips into the equation.  Here are a few of my personal favorites, here, here, and here.

rosewater and face wipes – Rosewater one of my favorite things. It is so cooling and refreshing! I use it multiple times a day as a little pick-me-up.  It is used as a face toner in my daily routine, but I like to dab a little on my neck and wrists as a natural perfume. This is the one I use.  And then face wipes because when I'm tired the last thing I want to do is wash my face. 

nursing tanks + sweats – winning combination for before and after labor (hospital gowns are not my thing). My plan is to look as cute as possible, obviously :).

pretty socks - to keep you warm...I've already experienced some crazy hormonal temperature shifts and socks are a big thumbs up in my book.

spiritual strength – rosary (I plan to listen to a scriptural rosary on my computer), bible verses and personal intentions I wrote in my journal, small crucifix to put by my bedside, and a photo of the Sacred Heart of Jesus.

christ-centered childbirth

I'll be officially 38 weeks in a few days.  This is surreal...I could be meeting him any day now and it is the most exciting, terrifying feeling.

As far as labor prep, I'm planning on having a natural childbirth.  I've been exercising and eating my veggies and taking The Bradley Method classes.  We hired a doula and she's been the biggest gift in helping me feel empowered and confident in my ability to actually do this.  But, a birth snob I am not, and totally recognize that the goal is to have a healthy baby in the end.  Labor is crazy and I honestly believe that there is no "right" way to bring life into this world.  As a couple we chose to plan on a natural birth... I know that it might not happen and that's ok.  I'm going to try my hardest not to be disappointed if things don't go as planned ;).

For me, this decision was something both Brad and I prayed a lot about.  I felt like the Lord was inviting me into this as an opportunity to draw closer to Him, giving me a chance for a lesson in redemptive suffering.  Suffering can be beautiful...Christ's Passion taught us that.  When I'm scared of any little cross I remember that the word compassion literally means "to suffer with".  If we don't learn how to suffer beautifully, with dignity, how are we going to be compassionate individuals of society? How will we understand the suffering of others if we don't know how to suffer ourselves?

Plus, I'm kinda crunchy and personally don't like the feeling of being on heavy medicine (the epidural is actually scarier to me than the pain of natural childbirth :)).  So, I'm gonna go for it! And the only thing that's gonna get me through it is Jesus. And Brad's back massages.

Am I scared? um YES. Of so many things. I'm scared of not being in control, of the pain, of the unknown, of what to do after the birth is over (like...how about all that mom stuff?!).  But then I remember "Be not afraid".  Fear is not of God. In choosing to cast out fear, I am embracing the joy of meeting my child for the first time outside the womb. I am confident in the abilities of my body and rest in the belief that I was created to bring this life into the world. I am in awe of what my body has been able to do thus far. 

Shout out to womanhood: Being a woman is pretty incredible, isn't it?!

I'm a little obsessed with birth stories, and could probably talk about birth all day long. 
Here's what I'm currently reading to help me prepare:

Natural Hospital Birth
Ina May's Guide to Childbirth
Breastfeeding Made Simple

Here are a few Scripture verses I've been meditating on recently to help me spiritually prepare:

Joshua 1:9

Philippians 3:14

Isaiah 26:3

Isaiah 41:10

Isaiah 40:11

Psalm 31:5

Nehemiah 8:10
 

And I'll leave you with these powerful words by St. John Paul II on the message of Divine Mercy:

It is a message that is clear and understandable for everyone. Anyone can come here, look at this image of the merciful Jesus, His Heart radiating grace, and hear in the depths of his own soul what Blessed Faustina heard: "Fear nothing. I am with you always" (Diary, 586).

And if this person responds with a sincere heart: "Jesus, I trust in You," he will find comfort in all his anxieties and fears. In this "dialogue of abandonment," there is established between man and Christ a special bond that sets love free. And "there is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear" (1 Jn 4:18).

fossier fais do-do

Where do I even begin?! Our trip home was filled with oh so many wonderful things I don't even know how to process all the fun.  There were ordinations, and dance parties, and nuns, and weddings, and swimming, and walks down memory lane.  But most importantly, there was the food (just in case you didn't realize, eating my way through Louisiana is one of my favorite things to do).

First up, Baton Rouge.  We celebrated the ordination of our BFF Fr. Brad Doyle into the priesthood at St. Joseph's Cathedral, and then had one heck of a party after his first mass.  I may or may not have danced way too hard but Rodie Romero and the Hub City All-Stars were playing, so could you blame me?  They were the band for our wedding and I just couldn't help my little 9 month pregnant self. Seriously, I couldn't get off the couch for 2 days after this (and it was totally worth it). Here's us with Roddie...

And here's me with my sweet nuns at the ordination....the Missionaries of Charity! They are with Bl. Mother Teresa's order, which is why their habits might look familiar to you.  I worked with them a lot during college and they are so much fun (and a beautiful witness to the Catholic Church).  I, however, am ridiculous and totally bring out the silly in them.  We giggle way too much when we haven't seen each other in a long time! Who am I kidding, we giggle way too much basically every time we see each other.

See what I mean?

And here's the only photo we took with Fr. Brad on his ordination day at the spontaneous after-after party at the Benton Home...whoops! Friend and photo document fail.  Try not to look too excited to take a picture Fr. Brad ;)

After all the ordination activities, we spent some quality time with our people -- I had lunch with Mary Claire, Brad and I went swimming with our adorable nieces, and we even made a day trip to see my grandparents in Lafayette! How beautiful is my grandmother?!

IMG_1474.JPG

Then we said good by to Baton Rouge (and LSU) and were NOLA bound!!!

the fossier's take new orleans

We did a good thing and started our New Orleans vacation as any good start to a New Orleans vacation should... beignets!

Then we were ready to take on this magical city...

We were in town for our good friends Jonathan and Kat's wedding -- Brad served as the best man and it was a blast getting to be there during such a special time in their lives. 

Jonathan actually lives at the rectory of St. Louis Cathedral in the French Quarter, but since he was getting married he needed help moving out.  Which is where we came to the rescue (and meant that I got to see all the secret things!) Well, it's not really that secret, but I still felt super cool...I mean, check out that elevator!? It was kinda like a dream for me to frolic all around the building.  It was built in early 1800's and filled with all sorts of historic holy goodness!

photo 3 copy 2.JPG

While Brad did best man things I got to have a girls day with my mama and two of her adorable sisters.  We went out for lunch at Baru, then got ice cream at Creole Creamery (my fav), and went shopping (of course).  There's this awesome eyeglasses shop called Art and Eyes that is so much fun! We were a mess trying on all the glasses..I had trouble parting with them.

Before we knew it, it was wedding time!!!

There's nothing like a New Orleans wedding...

We love you New Orleans! And next time we see you, we will have a baby in tow.  Can't wait to show him all of my favorite stops...including these cupcakes.  Brad and I couldn't leave the state without stopping for lunch at the Cake Bakery in the bywater district.  Come to mama, you beautiful vanilla cupcake you.